The Bleak Midwinter

Sliding, Scraping & Staying Home

It’s a funny thing, winter. Certainly in Plymouth it is anyway. It happens about once every five years and just like it did last January, it completely screws things up for a week or so. The snow falls unexpectedly to a depth of about an inch and no-one knows what the hell to do. You switch on local TV news to see kids sliding down the merest hint of a hill on a dustbin lid, a poor driver trying and failing to drive his car up an icy incline and worst of all, a local reporter has been driven to the middle of nowhere to show us the scarf he got for Christmas and to indicate with a sweep of his arm what chaos awaits you outside.

Commuter Chaos!

Important-looking officials impart the most pointless instruction in the world “stay at home unless your journey is absolutely necessary” and everyone ignores them for fear of having no milk in their tea, no fag in their mouth and possibly the kids at home all day. Seriously, how would you classify a journey as “not absolutely necessary”? Certainly, no employer is going to let you off a days work because someone on the radio told you stay at home. What usually happens is that you chip your car out of the frost and drive gingerly away. You sit forward enough for your nose to touch the windscreen and you grip the steering wheel in the hope that the harder you do so, the more grip the tyres are going to have on the road. It doesn’t help of course. You are almost certain to start sliding sideways the moment you touch the brakes and if there’s one thing worse than a high speed accident, its an incredibly slow one that you can do nothing about. Nevertheless, your employer still expects you get there and its once you are there that your problems really begin. If it has stopped actually snowing by the time you get to work, it will start again not long after you arrive. You and your employer will then do little work anyway and instead stare at the window and the slow-falling flakes of chaos. You will be hoping to be sent home soon and they are hoping that it will stop and that they won’t have to send you home soon, whilst simultaneously hoping they CAN send you home thus enabling them to go home as well. Ahh, the stress of management…

At some point, you are allowed home and more horror awaits. Annoying people in 4X4 monstrosities seize the moment to smug you to death. Most of the year we scorn their selfish choice of oil burning machine, but for today at least they can be comfortable and safe. Their unnecessary blight on the ecological landscape still bruises the planet for 350 days of the year but for now they can be warmed by their own superiority and our palpable jealousy. If you look closely, they have probably given a lift to a few non-drivers and saved them from slipping and sliding their way home in the bitter cold. They will no doubt find time to stare at you as they drive away, their judgemental, bobble-hatted gaze futher burning into your angered heart.

By now, you may be wondering why I am talking about this on Halloween. Well, it was a bit frosty on Monday morning and I was caught unawares. The car warmed up eventually and the windows cleared, thanks mostly to the drippy remnants of last year’s de-icer and the edge of my bank card. On the way home, I bought two cans of de-icer and once home, I topped up the anti-freeze.

The next day, the temperature soared by about 5 degrees and nothing but warm morning drizzle has greeted me since.

You are welcome. I like to think of the first moments of Winter panic as a kind of public service.

TV

Upside-down Eyes!!

A recent phenomenon is the autumn TV surge. In recent years, SKY has started showing US TV series only a few days after they broadcast in the States. Due to my hours of work (evenings), I have to SKY+ all of these programs and watch them later. For some reason, I end up saving these for the weekends and starting on Saturday night, I have to methodically watch each of the 11 programmes. I make it sound like torture, when it is actually the opposite, but there is something about seeing all those recorded programmes lined up that fills me with dread. It happens every week and then, around May, the series all finish and there’s nothing on. I could quite easily leave all these programmes and watch them at anytime. The SKY+ box kindly stacks them all up in little folders but I MUST watch them and watch them NOW.

I haven’t even mentioned the programmes that actually go out live on Saturday night, namely Strictly Come Dancing and The X Factor. I usually watch these on Monday morning and fast-forward through them – especially Cher and her upside-down eyes, funny mouth and hugely annoying leg twitch.

Radio

I have no desire to return to the angry young blogger that I became in the first part of the year but I must allow myself a little bit of release now and again. All this week and for a lot of the preceeding few months, the broadcasters on Radio 2 have been endlessly plugging this year’s “Electric Proms”.

Electric Proms

Quite what separates this annual event from every other live performance they broadcast, I am not quite sure, but this hasn’t stopped them elevating it to the status of an indisputable religious miracle. This is annoying enough but not the whole story. What really gets my goat is the way they talk about it like we could all go if we wanted to. Let me explain. Only 7 million of of us live in London. Let’s be generous and say that maybe 10 million people live close enough to go without too much inconvenience. The remaining 50 million are a bit stuck, even if they wanted to go. This doesn’t seem to stop our favourite radio station pretending that this wonderous event is for all of us. They do the same with productions in the West End. Its “our theatre” and “the nation’s theatre”. No it isn’t. Shut up. It’s for people who live in London and not for those who live 100s of miles away.

As a side gripe, it also seems that it is for BBC staff too. A quick glance at Twitter or a quick listen to the station’s output the next day made it clear that an event so exclusive that tickets were given away in a telephone lottery, was attended by any DJ who wanted to go and quite a few hangers on as well. Not good at all.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I am still proud of the BBC. I listen to Radio 2 and Radio 4 every single day and they are both wonderful. I just wish they would stop talking about Neil Diamond, Robert Plant (all hail) and Elton John like they represent the second coming. They are good musicians, all very good at their “jobs” but that’s about it. Get a grip people.

School

I didn’t have much to blog about this week regarding school or writing. It did occur to me that, in two weeks time, I will be back in Dover for Old Boys Weekend and it’s the first such visit that has taken place during a blogging phase. I can’t let this pass without doing something appropriate so I am going to do some sort of blog from there. I am not sure exactly what to do but I’ll think of something. I do have a dictaphone and I do know people who like to talk a lot so that might be one directon to go in. My travelling companions probably just swallowed something hard and jagged but I promise they are safe.

I am going to take some more photos certainly and I have compiled a list of things to check up on. I have been writing about things that took place 30 years ago and 400 miles away for ages. It will be cool to actually check the memories out.

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Trip

Look out, I’m back again. No longer got nuddin’. I think it’s safe to say that today I have summin’ at least. In a departure from the normal policy of just reading my old blog posts (admit it bloggers, you do it too), I am going to quite literally add to the number of words in the world.

It’s been a busy old time of late. Last weekend, I went to watch the Army V Navy rugby game at Twickenham with all my friends. That sentence hardly does it justice but I thought I’d get the meat out of the way first. The train tickets arrived in the post a few weeks ago with a mysterious set of instructions. On Friday 2nd May, I jumped on a train for the first time in years and headed for Reading. All I knew was that I would be meeting one of the conspirators and that it would definately not be Sean, as I had spoken to him on the phone earlier and he had been given a different set of instructions. I climbed out at Reading after a moment of blind panic concerning an automatically locking door and an almost 40 year old blogger, only to spot Bruce Whitton. Now several hundred of you will have no idea who that is. He is a big cheese in my school Old Boy network and I had not seen him in over a year. Unfortunately, I was only 99% sure it was him and in that terribly british manner, chose not to shout across the station. I now know it was indeed Bruce. Bugger.

Anyway, what to do with myself? Do I wait for the crowds to clear and let my contact find me or do I go hunting until someone recognises me? I tried the former to no avail and headed up the ramp for the exit. At the top of said ramp stood Sean. One of several moments of confusion and mild dishonesty that would greet me over the next few days.

We drove to what turned out to be Farnborough and the home of big and tall Stan. After some very nice (diabetic friendly) food it was off the the pub and a few hours of intense political debate with Mark, Stan’s brother. At about this point, the joy of not drinking was hammered home. Diet Coke sits on you alright until the 2 or 3 pint. After this, you enter a clarity of thought outside your normal frame of experience. Combine this with the lack of energy caused by low blood sugar and you find yourself very, very, very sober. I am beginning to get used to it but as your increasingly slurry, chums slowly slide under the table, its quite difficult (actually pointless) to explain things to them. Diet Coke no.4 is quite literally the last thing on earth you want. What I did want, and quite desperately it has to be said, was some cheese on toast and a cup of tea. Luckily, it was almost evening pill time and time to head back to Stan’s gaff.

You must realise at this point, I was none the wiser as to how the rest of the weekend would play out. I was going to bed without knowing one thing about Saturday.

Saturday came just a few long hours later and time for another wonderful Stan breakfast. Now at this point, I notice that both Sean and Stan are wearing DYRMS OBA rugby shirts.

Clue one.

Then to Farnborough railway station and a short hop (well, a train ride actually) to Clapham Junction. Here I was thrust head first into The Slug & Pellet, whereupon I met some more friends, old and new. Helen (Hx) & mummy Hx, Heidi (HHx) & Si and Amy. There was much taking of photos and hugging. Unfortunately, it was too soon after breakfast so they ate while I had a Diet Coke. Out came the Army V Navy tickets and the secret was out of the bag. I had never been to Twickenham before and it was a really kind idea of theirs to take me.

The game was no classic but once you are sat down listening to the crowd, it doesn’t matter. It was cool and now I have done it.

Thanks guys.

Gravelands

Whilst staying at Stan’s place. I heard this. Now I have a copy and it is the weirdest, strangest thing I have head in ages. It is also a work of genius. I have also ordered a copy of the previous album.

Lazily, I nicked the following review from Amazon…

“The King is James Brown, an Irish postman. He was discovered singing Elvis songs at a karaoke bar. A record producer had the idea to record the Nirvana song “Come As You Are” with an Elvis impersonator, and he was struck by how much Brown sounded like Elvis. Yes, he actually does sound a lot like Elvis. Anyway, after they recorded the Nirvana song, they decided to record a whole album of songs by dead rockers. Yes, it’s an album of songs by dead people sung by an Elvis impersonator. Somewhat surprisingly, the songs are played “straight”. The songs aren’t played for laughs at all. They are somewhat interesting for the most part, with “Come As You Are” being the best of the lot. If that sounds like something you would be interested in, here it is.”

PC

As of this precise moment. This PC is all mine. It’s taken 4 years but I now own it all. What surprises me the most is that it still flys along. Ok, I stuffed it full of memory, almost 2 terabytes of hard disk space and a 512mb Graphics card over the last few years but this morning I played Crysis with all the settings set to medium. The PC savvy amongst you will realise the impressiveness of this. Others can rot in luddite hell.

Hole

I was going to blog about this alone but having typed for an hour or so, my gloom has lifted. A weird, indefinable gloom. I hope it wasn’t too apparant over the weekend but I tend to swerve from happy to not happy quite distinctly lately. Yesterday I was a bit glum and today I am not. Who knows why?

Oh and its hot. I hate that.

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Balance

Work was so up and down this week that most of the time I was borderline schizophrenic.

We released a major update of our latest product to slavering hordes on Monday and as we should have predicted, not much happened. As is often the case with software, most effort is not apparent to anyone except those who take the time to be interested in code and similar sexiness. Due to a design decision made long before I hopped aboard the project, updates are a long and tediously repetitious thing, but luckily I did this bit last time. This time round, it was left to me to constantly interrupt my industrious colleague with witty banalities. There was nothing I could do about it. It was his turn and that was that. It all went well though and we solved a huge number of problems. By Tuesday night it was obvious that the long awaited (by a huge few) version 7.0a was a success.

On Wednesday, I made a mistake I have made often before and sent an Email to someone important without thinking it through first and the reply really took the wind out of my sails. I tried to console myself with the sort of cheery and contemplative nonsense I dispense towards my colleague when he feels the same way but alas, I was not in the mood to believe myself. Things picked up on Thursday when I lined up two of Neil’s famous training workshops for the coming week. Time once more to slap on a funny wig, glowing red nose and huge shoes. Figuratively anyway.

My imminent students are just fortunate I couldn’t fit a little car with exploding doors into the lift.

Training a group of people who are having time off from something far less fun is always rewarding anyway. My school friends who remember how much we ‘enjoyed’ fire-fighting instructional films because it meant we didn’t have to spend a few hours running through muddy farm fields will appreciate where I am coming from on this.

Friday was spent working on my Powerpoint presentation for the aforementioned training. Spending two hours on one particular slide may seem excessive, but that 30 second part of the session will be a corker, trust me. Honk. Honk.

Half

Slimming World again this week. As you can see by the graph on the bottom right, I only lost ½ pound this week, but it is still heading downwards. I am fairly sure why I didn’t lose much last week so all I have to do is not do that again and all should be well. My sister Jo joined last week and she managed to lost 6 pounds in her first week, all thanks (she says) to my very filling sausage and bean casserole. The whole group were scribbling the recipe down so this Thursday should be fun when the reviews come in.

Tankard.

A long overdue acknowledgement of a kind gesture. This here tankard, now all cleaned up and almost shiny, belonged to David Brooshooft (forever Billy to several thousand chaps spread the world over) and lived at a seldom mentioned public house in Guston frequented by his goodself and many other Duke of York’s masters. Last November, on Old Boys Weekend, sadly in my absence, a meeting of minds and generosity between Stan, Sean, Dave Shott, Pete Sampson, Pete Smythe, Dave Harris, the landlord of the pub and others of whom I am not aware resulted in a decision that led to the tankard ending up in my possession. Despite a heavy cleaning, I am not sure that I will ever be drinking from it but that doesn’t matter. The only time I ever really drink is in November with my old school chums and I would be too scared that I would lose it.

To own something like this is a huge (and slightly surreal) privelage. Bill Brooshooft had a big influence on my early life and I will treasure it as I treasure the friendship of those who were involved in the process that ended with it arriving at my house.

Yazoo.

This is almost too cool to be true. Yazoo – Vince Clarke and Alison Moyet – are to reform and tour in June this year. They split in 1983 after just two albums, possibly because they heard how I played them to death and felt that the walls of Wolseley House at The Duke of York’s had been exposed to more than enough happy synthpop. 25 years later, I still play them to death (at the moment actually), so to some of us they never went away. Oddly, despite the time-shifting, nostalgia-ruining nature of the IPod, I still completely associate their music with our 4th Year common room.

What a birthday year this is going to be…

Slimming World

To quote some of the younger people I work with…”OMG OMG!!”.

You see, as I think I said last time, I was a bit knocked-back by my first visit to Slimming World last Thursday. I have now confirmed that my bathroom scales are about 7 pounds under. They say I am lighter than before. If you add that error to the fact that I weighed more than I thought anyway, it turns out the last Thursday, I weighed in at 16 Stone, 11 and a half pounds. Grim to say the least. In the last year and a bit since diabetes diagnosis I have gone from 17 Stone 3 Pounds down to about 15 Stone 12 Pounds and apparantely, back up again recently.

But enough of this misery. After my first week of sticking to the Slimming World wisdom, I had lost 4 and a half pounds. More than anyone else in my group. I got a round of applause (as does everyone who loses poundage) and it was kind of cool. It was also a huge relief as the Slimming World food optimising principles involved me eating more food than I ever thought you could on a diet. As I followed the guide over the last 7 days, a little voice was always in the back of my mind…”this can’t possibly be right..”

I am happy to report that it obviously is and I have enjoyed doing a lot of cooking, HATED DOING A LOT OF WASHING UP and come out of Tesco with a lot of things I had never bought before. I really hope this is not the initial spurt some of my new friends in the club promised that happens to men when they first join the club.

After the weigh-in, the session itself was ok but I could have done without the discussions regarding the colour and amount of water passed following the consumption of certain types of fruit salad and I now know a lot more about slimming pants than I ever needed or wanted to.

On A Roll

A weird thing happened today. J let me have the little Rubik Cube she got in a Christmas Cracker about 2 weeks ago and I have been constantly twiddling the damn thing since. Then, at about 8.12pm today, I completed it. I wish I knew how. Bits of pieces came flooding back from that heddy summer of 1982 when school was alive with the constant clicking of cubes, but mostly it was a combination of concentration and fluke.

Scott, my hard working colleague had noticed me doing the Rubik thing in every spare moment (in breaks only – promise) and brought three puzzles of his own in. One of them was a complicated string, wood and metal ring thing that he had never been able to do. Two minutes after finishing the Rubik Cube, I picked up this puzzle and after a bit of fiddling, held aloft one lone metal ring. he was duly impressed and I was indeed on a roll.

Melody In The Metal Cocoon

One thing that public transport will never offer the veteran motorist is the ability and freedom to sing along to your in-car music loudly and slightly tunelessly. Nose picking on the 42B is risky and frowned upon also, but I digress…

As was the case with the Rubik Cube, long forgotten memories come flooding back with impressive clarity sometimes. The IPod was blaring out my 80s Music in completely random order when along came that timeless classic “Stand & Deliver” by one Adam Ant. Three minutes later I had accurately and semi-tunefully sung along with it. Every damn “diddly qua qua”. How does that work? I don’t exactly play it every day. I have probably only played 3 or 4 times in the last 20 years. The next song, “All Of My Heart” by ABC, was easier as it is certainly in my all time personal Top 40 and is the sort of song that I listen to once or twice a month. Like “Vienna” by Ultravox, it belongs to that exclusive collection of great songs than never got to No.1 in the 80s of course, but I digress once more. “Careless Whisper” by Georgio Michealosk completed the trip-home-trilogy and you can guess the end of this story.

I find particular resonance in it these days. As I enter my 40th year, I probably will never dance again and no amount of guilty rhythms will change that.

As Sophie and her friends say quite often these days, “Random”.

Like me, I am sure you are huge fans of irony. So here I was, just preparing for a verbal outpouring of interestingness and wild, flamboyant ponderings when I notice that the clever, keyword content-driven Amazon adverts at the bottom right of the page are full of BT phones. Very clever guys. I moan about BT on my blog and I end up giving them advertising space.

So what did I learn and do since last I dribbled on in a verbal fashion?

Well, in diabetic-friendly cookery news I learned that Gram flour is flour made from ground chick peas and is a good replacement flour for me to use. I also learned that you can’t buy Apple & Pear puree for love nor money anywhere in the Plymouth area. I came ridiculously close to buy Apple & Pear puree babyfood but thought better of it. So the fruit flan with wholemeal pastry wasn’t perfect – barely a 5/10 in fact but I made it all myself so there.

My flapjacks are now the stuff of legend in the Buxton household. Despite making them for my dieting sister, the whole brood polished them off in two days. It’s nice to be useful.

Oh yes, the whole cooking thing today was conducted at a caffeine-induced double-time thanks to my accidental use of full caffeine coffee twice this morning. If I am lucky, I may have calmed down by tomorrow afternoon which will be at about the same time that my wholemeal pastry makes it through my digestive system. A healthy bowel is a wonderful thing but it’s barely worth sitting down in there. My reading is really suffering.

One Pic Per Day 2007

OK. I finally caught up. There are gaps, mostly due to work being a bit predictable and routine these past few months. Hopefully I can be a bit more regular with my postings from now on. Hear that work colleagues? Be interesting and provoking and remember to smile…and give your permission of course. Thanks to a recent Email at work I should point out to my senior colleagues that all work photos posted are never done so without the express permission of those involved. Ok, so Hayley isn’t too happy about it but she hasn’t had a close up…yet.

MyTunes

My name is Neil. I am male, 39 years old and this week I have mostly been listening to and liking very much, the Dixie Chicks, Marc Almond,Billy Currington and some very old Depeche Mode. So there.
L8r

So, I won’t bother using one.

Ho hum.

Tis Sunday and the world is lazing about. Until about an hour ago, Neil was too. Actually, I have only moved my ass about 20 feet in total today so far – Zola Budd I am not.

It’s been a weekend of happy happenings and I can do little more than list them in no particular order (except the first one obviously )

The New Veasey Hound

Bless. Since the sad passing of happy canine tricycle that was Hopper it has no doubt been quiet(ish) in that sunny corner of Oxon that is forever bald and portly (catching you up on top though mate). For those of you who didn’t know, Hopper was rescued from a less than special beginning and rewarded with a special life of regular meals, regular walkies and a hairy blanket. Once more the Veaseys have opened their door to another little hound with a similar past. You are very welcome to our world little one, just don’t pee up dad’s leg whilst he is on the forum…

The Orang Utan

At last this is sorted. You see, I have a very good friend at work who likes monkeys – don’t we all? Anyway, it was her birthday on Christmas day and whilst struggling to decide what to buy her (surprise Birthday party on Boxing Day), myself and two other of her chums decide to go 3 ways on sponsoring an Orangutan for her. Brilliant. Unfortunately, I didn’t arrange it in time to get it to her for her party. Nevertheless she was over the moon when we told her and has spoken of little else since. Were it not for endless confusion and mistakes over debit cards, transfers and finally cash sent by recorded delivery, I only received the certificate and other bits and pieces yesterday. There is a very nice photo of said adopted monkey as well. She will be extremely happy tomorrow when I can finally pass it on. Also, I am now on an almost first name basis with the adoption secretary at the zoo. Hello Mandy.

Ebay

Things are going well on Ebay. Most of my stuff is selling and once you get used to Ebay’s fees and Paypal’s fees and Royal Mail’s fees and the fact that you didn’t end up with as much cash as you thought, its all quite a lot of fun. I am actually quite amazed I have been able to spare enough time to write this in between checking my selling page.

Work

Yes, as you have noticed by my less than regular blogs these past 8 days, I have been busier than busy or tireder than tired or whatever. I looked after another team of 30 odd strangers again. Ups and downs all the way in about equal measure that remind me of that new advert on telly for special constables. Only remind, mind you. I am not suggesting for a moment that what I do is even comparable, but I have dealt with illness, absence, unhappiness, administration and a surprising amount of chinese food. Unfortunately, you will have to take my word for it. The Data Protection Act, my terms of employment and good manners prevent any further detail here. Buy me a drink in November…now thats a different matter entirely.

RIP Smash Hits

Can there be a more iconic reminder of our youth than Smash Hits? Ok, I can think of about 300 but thats my job, my hobby and probably a lifetime obsession so I have an excuse. I found the official website but it was full of people I hadn’t heard of. Instead, I recommend the cracking BBC site message board filled with messages and memories of people who seem to be about the same age as us.

Smash Hits Official Site

BBC Smash Hits Memories Message Board

The Guardian Says Goodbye To Smash Hits

Even when you only went into town with £3, the 40p spent on Smash Hits was still a must. After reading it from cover to cover in those internetless days it would be butchered and probably ended up covering 90% of the DYRMS wallspace within days of each publication.

My Study Wall Xmas 1985

My Other Study Wall July 1985

From what I can see of their current website, they seemed more concerned with flogging something called “ringtones” to their readership and printing posters of something called a Muck Fly. Perhaps it was time after all.

Till we meet again.

Freelance Generosity

I just got back from some database work for someone who gave me some work 3 years ago when I had just been made redundant. It was a few hundred pounds worth of business but it came just at the right time and cheered me up no end. I am sure that this was not the primary reason for the work, they needed a database after all, but I still feel indebted. I have revisited them on 7 or 8 occasions since – sometimes doing 2 hours work and often a lot less but I always popped off an invoice soon after. Today was different. I stayed about 20 minutes, caught up on some gossip (myself and the lady in question used to work together) and managed to achieve about half or what I went for. It was even on the way to somewhere I had to go anyway.

So I am not gonna charge. Am I foolish, naive or too nice for the cut-and-thrust world of freelance business? I think all three.

Miscellaneous Observations This Week

I was filling up the veehickle at the gas station this morning and whilst using the slowest pump in the western hemisphere I noticed a large floor mounted sign nearby swinging in the wind. “Quality Fuel” it said. I must admit to being a bit fussy and almost “Col Mike Argue”-like in my disapproval of daft things (no bad thing as I near 40), but I have never avoided a petrol station due to word of its low-quality fuel. No-one has ever passed on water-cooler gossip of low standard petrol in hushed tones like Private Walker from Dad’s Army. Still, this particular company decided to waste a small amount of their huge profits (93p a bloody litre) on the most pointless and unnecessary sign in the world.

You have to feel sorry for Saddam’s prosecution team. The bearded one refused to identify himself. I bet they never saw that one coming. Your witness.

Did anyone see Marcus Brigstock on Jack Dee last week? For the first time in a while I almost soiled myself. I barely had time to clean myself when Rich Hall came on. For those of you who missed the line about Norwich’s strange rituals and lack of different surnames and the tourist board posters that claim “Norwich is coming into its own…”, I pity you.

Gary Jules, Give Me Back 1983

I had a nice nap yesterday. I fell asleep listening to “The Hurting”, first album by Tears for Fears. Brilliant. I still can’t make my mind up between Dare, The Hurting or Penthouse & Pavement as my favourite album of all time. I really hope Sue Lawley never comes knocking because my desert island discs would take forever. Stan would probably be the only person to take longer. The end title music would fade and he would still be demanding to leave behind The Bible and The Complete Works of Shakespeare whilst taking just a few more CDs…

Anyway. Time to go. You have had enough fun for now.

Holiday

Yes, I am off today and please don’t insult my intelligence by saying you don’t understand the title of this blog.

3 hits by Marvin Gaye in 10 seconds. Piece of piss…ha

Yes, three days off for no other reason than it was between Summer and Old Boys. Royal Mail requires all staff to book all their holidays at least 12 months in advance and who was I to argue? You have to be careful though and keep a record yourself. Its no joke to turn up for work and be greeted with “aren’t you on holiday today?”. Its a bit like going into the kitchen at 1am and forgetting why you went there. Actually, I have now moved onto stage 2. At 37, I go to into the toilet and wonder why…

Smells

No connection obviously but I have been thinking about this for several days. I went into Superdrug on Friday to buy something for the weekend (bbq briquettes) and was greeted by the smell of Wolseley bathhouse first thing in the morning. God knows what soap it was but it was obviously one favoured by the mothers of Dukies in the 80s. My closest chums will remember the long coat I wore in my 5th and Lower 6th form. I bought it off Wayne Allen for 60p, something that I am pretty sure was more than he paid for it from the Oxfam shop. Anyhow, a lovely young lady called Wiz spilt perfume over it in The Stage and it smelt of strawberry forever more. I must be the only DYRMS Old Boy who is reminded of The Dover Stage pub by a certain brand of plug-in air-freshener.

Still think I am nuts? About 10 years, Hooe Primary school was used as the local Polling Station. In we went to be greeted by the smell of DYRMS boot room. Klear as god is my witness.

About two jobs ago, I worked in an office next to a microfiche reader. The room smelt exactlly the same as backstage in the old Nye Hall.

Either that or I am complete headcase.

Discuss.

18 Days…tick tick tick
There was another one of those moments today.

Heaven 17 – The Luxury Gap, permanently in my top 10 album chart to which the song “Come Live With Me” belongs. I love that song. The first line “I was 37 you were 17″ may be a little dodgy (the lyrics get dodgier later on), but it speaks to me on some level.
Anyway, as I was out getting a paper this morning and said song was blaring out of the car stereo, I realised that I was about 17 when I first heard it and I am now almost 37. Depressing isn’t the word. Still, as I parked up and heard some tuneless tripe thumping out of a Vauxhall Nova I was glad to be almost 37. Come to think of it…how old is Glen Gregory now?

I have just started the 10 second countdown for Stan to tell me.

Later Dudes